Practicing Self-Love When You’re Feeling Insecure

It takes someone incredibly insightful to recognise that I am not a very secure and self-loving person. On the outside, I’m this enthusiastic, overwhelmingly positive and confident being who loves to spread love and joy to others, yet on my worst days I’m overly-critical, jarringly negative and hurtful to myself. On my best days I…

Notes On… Being Single

Oh hello there, long time no blog! I know, I know, you were all getting excited because it seemed like I was back to posting regularly and then, silence. Awkward. I do feel a little bad, but then, blogging is my hobby and I do it for enjoyment – so I allow myself to blog…

When Life Gives You Lemons

I have come to a conclusion, and it’s probably a bad one, that I should never, ever date again. You know when you drink far, far too much (usually on the “best night of your life so far”) and you spend the next two days in bed feeling terribly sorry for yourself and only have…

Dear John

Dear John, I can’t do this anymore. It’s not you, it’s me. I just have too much going on in my life right now. I don’t know how to be loved. You deserve better. You are going to have a great future. I think we should still be friends. I don’t want to hurt you….

Courtesy Not Courtship

A few months ago I wrote a wonderfully cheerful and sassy post all about how happy I was to be a single lady. I was single, independent and incredibly smug about it too. Then all of a sudden, BOYS. Boys, boys, boys. Boys. Boys. WHY. Universe, you have a terrible sense of humour. This is…

10 Ways To Make A Guy Like You

Mindy Kaling is my spirit animal Talk to them every single day, all the time. Do not give them the chance to think about anyone else, only you. Helps if you add 100 emojis to every second text. Ones that are not applicable to the situation work best. My favourite is the donut. Weird waving…

Dating My Friends

There has been a little bit of speculation as to what this post would be about. Someone thought I was going to write a post about a crush I have. Does that sound like something I’d do? Yeah, it totally does. But, no. Another thought I was going to try to advertise for people to…